Some days owning my own business, even this business that I dearly love, feels like living in a “Whack-A-Mole” game. Every time I pop my head up, somebody whacks it with a gigantic puffy mallet. In addition to a variety of memorable, wonderfully quirky clients I meet, what makes this business so interesting, is the endless parade of comical, unbelievably whacky situations in which I find myself.

Dog training can be a dangerous endeavor, but not necessarily in the way you might think. Sure, there’s the occasional resentful Rhodesian Ridgeback, vengeful Vizsla or the displeased Dachshund, but it’s the hidden dangers that will bite you in the backside when you least expect it. I once sustained a critical thumbnail injury in a bazaar clicker-training incident. No dog was present; I simply couldn’t contain my excitement over learning a new training technique. Thus, using unnecessary force with the clicker, I nearly dislocated my thumb.

Danger lurks around every corner and behind every door. During a session with Buddy, the overly exuberant boxer, I sustained a rather nasty blow to the face. It was not a left hook delivered by said boxer, but a direct hit from the door. In his excitement over my arrival, the dog pushed it open with his paws where I happened to be standing in the line of fire.

Training Chester, the English Mastiff to voluntarily enter the bathtub was quite the risky endeavor. Because it was no small feat to lift Chester’s 160-pound frame into the tub (not to mention it was 160-pounds of mastiff that did not want to get into the tub) we decided that luring Chester to the destination with raw chicken livers would be worth a shot. My plan was eventually successful, but I never thought I’d know the perils of a bathtub smeared with bits of slippery liver and chicken blood; the mere sight of which had nothing over the shower scene from Psycho.

Just before Halloween this past year, I accepted a client in need of behavior modification for a dog that was showing aggression toward people. The dog had a bite history, having aggressed toward several people. Now, working with aggressive dogs, especially dogs that have used their teeth on people, is a dicey prospect on several levels. Going into these cases, I dread to think about whether I can cover my health insurance deductible or the possibility of having to conduct training sessions while wearing a body cast.

I drove up to the client’s house at the appointed time, noticing how the home was abundantly decorated for Halloween. Then, to my extreme horror, I noticed what appeared to be tracks of dried blood running down the driveway. Now, had this call been to help potty train a 10-week-old toy poodle, my reaction would have been very different. But, because I’d been summoned to work with a biting dog, my first thought at the sight of the bloody massacre, was to turn my Ford Focus 180 degrees and head for the nearest job fair seeking an immediate career change.

As I age, in the “Whack-A-Mole” life that I’m living, I now see the value of buying the big bottle of ibuprofen at Costco and keeping my therapist’s number on speed dial. Nevertheless, it’s all worth it when at the end of the day, a grateful client presents me with a thank you gift and then says, “Thanks. This is for keeping Boomer off of E-Bay!”

Author’s Note: These are all true stories. The names of the dogs have been changed in order to prevent the need for them to enter The Wet Nose Protection Program.

I believe in being the pack leader. I don’t advocate the tactics of despot third world leaders, Victorian-age knuckle-rapping elementary school teachers or the alpha wolf-emulating trainers of certain popular culture.

That being said, I realize that I sometimes place myself at the top of the hierarchy quite by accident. Not unlike my counterparts in human parenting, I fear my “kids” are secretly learning by example. After all, what else do dogs, and some children, have to do but examine us incessantly, like miniature spies.

I reached the zenith of exemplary leadership during a nocturnal recycling episode last summer. After placing the bin of recyclables curbside for the next day’s collection, I settled in for some R & R. Some time later, my repose was disrupted by a mysterious commotion outside. Not wanting to alarm the three ferocious guard dogs fast asleep at my feet, I surreptitiously peered out the front window. To my dismay, I spied a carload of young men rifling through the bins. How dare they violate my recyclables?
I stormed out into the night, a formidable figure in my tattered bathrobe and fuzzy slippers with the cow faces. I demanded the intruders leave the premises immediately. My maniacal discourse, enough to panic any self-respecting dumpster diver, sent those criminal trash hunters scuttling.

I woke up the dogs to tell them of my triumph. They sat in disbelief with their heads cocked in that endearing way dogs do when intent on our storytelling. Suddenly I experienced a moment of clarity. I asked myself how I could be so frustrated with them for chasing the trash truck, when I had just set such a perfect example. Now, I pause and smile before stopping them from barking while running the fence line during trash pickup. I think they might be saying, “Stop stealing our trash! Stop stealing our trash!” “We’ll sic Mom on you. She really hates that!”

My leadership by example is stellar. It’s because I can rise to the occasion without even a glimmer of a second thought. For instance, the time my quiet Sunday morning was shattered by the sounds of a man screaming. While this isn’t completely unusual in my neighborhood that I lovingly refer to as “ghetto light”, I felt compelled to check it out. I looked out of the kitchen window and saw, to my dismay, a man pointing a gun at a dog, chasing him down the street crying, “It’s a Pit Bull! It’s a Pit Bull!”
Always the defender of the innocent canine, I dropped the toast I was preparing for breakfast, bolted out my front door and charged upon the vigilante scene. “What in Hell are you doing?” I shrieked. I am received with another resonating chorus of, “It’s a Pit Bull! It’s a Pit Bull!” The man fires off another round from his BB gun in the general direction of the fleeing dog.

I resisted the urge to confiscate his weapon and use it to beat the man thoroughly about his head. I instead, explained that the wandering dog actually belonged to our neighbor and to my knowledge, was about as dangerous as a newborn dust bunny.

The situation diffused, I headed back to my breakfast, which had now gone cold, and discovered that the food wasn’t the only thing to have cooled. My husband greeted my victorious return with, “I can’t believe it! We finally got the dogs to stop barking at the neighbors, and now YOU are out there barking at them!”
Finally, the sterling moment in my leadership by example career: the chronicle of the iPod delivery.

Some say that I am a geek and a wire head. I’ve also been told that I can get more use out of a piece of technology than the most frugal computer operator can. Alternatively, maybe I’m just plain cheap.

Lured in by a too-good-to-be- true offer, I submitted to my thriftiness and thirst for new technology. I acquired a “free” MP3 player. Sadly, the device was destroyed in a bizarre household laundry accident. Static electricity discharged from a blanket, administering violent and unexpected electroshock therapy through the ear buds, directly to my brain. Furthermore, it blew out the MP3 player in the process.

Suddenly, living without the MP3 player was like living without air so I decided to purchase a shiny new iPod. I anxiously awaited the gadget’s arrival by tracking its path on the delivery company’s web site. On the estimated day of arrival, I cleared my schedule and waited breathlessly for the doorbell to ring.

Of course, I happened to be on the phone when the long-awaited delivery occurred. Belatedly, I burst through the door only to find a “Sorry We Missed You” note and the sight of the brown delivery truck disappearing over the hill. Screaming and wildly waving my “Sorry We Missed You” note, I chased that driver for two blocks before catching him.

Perhaps it was the accidental electroshock therapy. Maybe it was my fear of falling into a technology deficit that caused my extreme behavior. No matter the cause, once again, I’ve become a perfect model of leadership to my dogs. I declare that I am the pack leader, albeit less like an exemplary canine hero and perhaps, a bit more like Scooby-Doo.

In my career as a dog trainer, I’ve faced raging Rottweilers, growling Great Danes and panicked Pit Bulls, but when asked to recall the most terrifying moment of my professional experience; one incident stands above all the rest.

It was a typical frosty, Colorado day in December, when my client, John, called to inquire if I could help him with his two dogs, Scarlett and Buddy. Turns out John had met with an acutely slick patch of ice resulting in a shattered ankle, and the inability to take his dogs on their daily walks.  I arrived at John’s house around 1PM. As I turned the key in the front door and entered the foyer, I heard John calling me from upstairs. He told me that he had been hearing a strange rustling noise, maybe coming from somewhere on the main floor. Unable to navigate the stairs safely on crutches, John requested that I investigate.

With more than a fair amount of trepidation and wishing that I had watched more episodes of CSI Miami, I surveyed the entire house. I peeked into closed rooms and behind doors regretting the fact that I was unarmed. Where were Scarlett and Buddy and why weren’t they born Doberman Pinschers instead of Yorkies? I tiptoed through the kitchen and into the garage with my ears and eyes wide open. Finishing my search and relieved that I had not met up with Hannibal Lecter, I informed John that I could not locate the source of the noise. Scarlett, Buddy, and I proceeded with our walk.

Upon my return with the dogs, John summoned me upstairs once again. He greeted me with the news that he had solved the mystery of the suspicious noise. Then, he asked me if I could please help by removing the offender, which was currently being detained in the bathroom.  In my entire dog trainer existence, nothing could have prepared me for the experience that was about to unfold. What courage I had summoned evaporated the instant I peered through the slight crack I’d opened in the bathroom door. I found myself facing a nightmare: one tremendously worse than the recurring dream about giving a news conference at the White House and realizing that I’d forgotten to get dressed beforehand. What I saw in that bathroom, at least in my mind, made the Psycho shower scene look like a day at the spa. I was terrified beyond the capacity for rational thought. My knees buckled and my mind raced. There, imprisoned in the shower stall and clinging to the curtain, was a ferocious, pterodactyl-sized, man-eating woodpecker!

FDR said, “The only thing to fear is fear itself.” I’ll bet he wasn’t the least bit ornithophobic! I’m not kidding. That was an enormous woodpecker in that tiny bathroom!

So, bring on the raging Rottweilers, growling Great Danes and panicked Pit Bulls. Just don’t ask me to put the bird out!

Too many undesirable canine events are attributed to the belief that the dog wants to be the alpha or pack leader. Following that line of thinking, I now believe that my dog sheds on the sofa because he wants to be dominant. I’m confused though, as to whether he wants to be dominant over the sofa or me.

The human species engages in unremitting battle for leadership and we anthropomorphize the behavior. I wonder about other species. Do you suppose there is such a thing as an Alpha sponge? If there were, the Alpha sponge would most definitely eat first, mate first, and lead the pack during annual mass sponge migrations.

The dominance theory would be set on its ear by some of the canine misconduct that takes place in my household. For instance, my dog Mr. MoJo yells at me. Alpha theorists might see this as a bid for dominance. I say that perhaps, he’s simply trying to communicate his plan for relocating a bone. Alpha believers would cringe to know of this great transgression; I’ve been French kissed by a German Shepherd Dog who uses his tongue for toilet paper. Don’t get me wrong. I neither enjoy nor encourage this behavior. I just don’t think it has anything to do with whether my dog believes in his supremacy over me.

If dogs are directly descended from wolves and therefore behave like wolves, (an idea currently up for debate) some hypothesize that we should emulate or eliminate perceived dominant canine behavior. Let’s take a closer look at this notion.

The Alpha Eats First: Dogs usually act as though they’re one meal away from starvation; let’s use that to our advantage. I don’t believe I have to eat first to be the leader. I believe that until dogs learn how to work the can opener, I’m in charge. Now, if they do learn to work the can opener, you can bet that they will be fixing my dinner!

The Alpha Goes Through Doors First: Until dogs grow opposable thumbs and can open doors by themselves, I’m in charge. How did we get this idea from observing wolves? I imagine that some, more evolved wolves might have swinging doors and, maybe escalators at the entryway to their dens.

The Alpha Walks Ahead On Leash: Some say that in order for me to be the alpha; my dog must walk behind or beside me while on leash. (Now, I’m picturing a wolf pack walking single file according to rank.) I don’t really care where my dog walks. He can carry a flag or twirl a baton to lead the parade if he wants. Just as long as he doesn’t rip my arm from its socket and he’ll pay attention to me when I ask, I’m in charge.

The Alpha Sleeps On The Bed: Dogs make great foot warmers and I enjoy having my German Shepherd preheat the sheets in the wintertime. The only conflict here is the sleep number setting; his number is lower than mine. To resolve the issue, I simply taught him to change the setting to my number before I come to bed.

Marking Territory: Even if my dog were marking his territory with a can of spray paint, instead of using the conventional canine method, I’m not emulating it! Period.

House Soiling: Plain and simple, there is no such thing as revenge pooping. Dogs think their poop is amazing and a source of great pride. Knowing this, why would we reason that a dog would use poop as retribution? I have no specific plans of emulating this behavior either.

Begging At The Table: I’m a vegetarian. My dogs are definitely not. They express their disappointment in the matter with threats to surrender themselves to the nearest shelter unless I bring home the occasional pot roast.

I believe that dogs would beg to differ with us about the dominance theory. I don’t think that they want to assimilate humans into some sort of canine dictatorship. I think that dogs really only think about three things: food, fun, and how to acquire each in unlimited supply. Indeed, they’re training us well.

Since the recent death of my dog Bob, I have experienced periods of immobilizing grief. Here, I’ll write about Bob as a catharsis to loosen the grip this immense sorrow has on my heart. “But, this is a humorous blog”, you say. Well, Bob was a humorous dog so it’s appropriate to honor his memory in an amusing way.

I come from a family that puts the FUN in dysfunctional. We laugh a lot at funerals. We’re not disrespectful; it’s just that being witty is how we deal with grief. We’re not laughing at the deceased; we’re laughing with them. We figure they’re looking down (or up) and snickering at us because we had to get dressed up and spend time with each other. Given such a background, I think I can come up with a humorous bit or two about such a sad event as Bob’s passing.

A line from Eric Idle’s song, Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life, challenges us to always look on the bright side of death. Why not take a look at the lighter side of death? An absurd idea, maybe, but give it chance. I mean there has to be something entertaining, if not a little scary about me being outside in my jammies numerous times during the night…in the snow.

Bob was prescribed Prednisone. It made him drink a lot…and pee a LOT. What were the neighbors thinking in the middle of the night when they heard from my back yard, “It’s OK, Big Guy. Take your time. I’ll  wait for you”? Caring for a terminally ill dog takes its toll. The lack of sleep and hygiene, the red eyes and runny nose from crying made me look like some kind of crack addict.

At first, I thought he was acting. If you knew Bob, you’d know that he was a dog who would do almost anything for attention. Was Bob capable of feigning a terminal disease just for the attention? After all, look at the special considerations he got in his last days. I fashioned steps up to my bed that Bob thought were the proverbial stairway to heaven. During his final days, Bob took pleasure in having breakfast in bed, eating chicken prepared by his vegetarian mom and peeing while lying down.

Each of Bob’s last days brought a visit from his girlfriend, Maeve. This fun-loving little Fox Terrier had a way of getting Bob to rise to the occasion. He would muster the energy to trot after her through the living room or go for a walk to the end of the block and back. We started calling Maeve Bob’s little “call girl” because all I had to do was call, and her mom would chauffer her to see him. My brother says a visit like that tends to give any guy a little pep in his step.

Bob danced into my life because he was such a happy dog. He left in the same manner. When the doctor came for the final house call, Bob even summoned the energy to greet him at the door with a smile and a wagging tail.

A friend recently told me the story of how her dog was too small for the breeder to sell. When she heard that the puppy weighed only 2.5 pounds she said, “Perfect. That’s just how much my heart weighs!” My heart weighed 90 lbs.

Well, here we are at the end of another 7 years. It seems it was only yesterday that I sat down to write my holiday letter! Time has flown by since last December. Some think that these holiday letters are boring, but to me, it’s the one chance I get every season to tell you how my life is better than yours. So here goes…

2009 was an exciting year filled with visits to the mountains to hunt marmots and to pee where no dog has peed before. We did several road trips to visit friends and family this past year. The first was in April to visit Barney. If you remember my last letter, I wrote that Barney was going to the city to be tutored. I was mistaken. Turns out he went to the hospital to be neutered. He was convalescing during our visit, so he didn’t get to go hunting with me. I did bring him a lovely dead rat to lift his spirits and aid in his recovery.

My nephew Sparky graduated from obedience school in May and is going on to study for his Canine Good Citizen test. He’s the first in the family to go to college. We’re so proud!

Aunt Tillie retired from herding this year. Although, retired is probably not the right word. You know you can’t keep a good Border Collie down. She’ll spend her retirement on the golf course. She’s volunteered to herd geese off the greens.

Cousin Gracie made the local news when she became the mother of 3 baby girls and 5 baby boys. She was dubbed the “Octamom” of Benton County. Mom and kids are all doing fine. However, she’s getting no help from that no-good scoundrel of a deadbeat dad. Rumor has it he ran off with a Beagle mix he met at a stray bar. They were last seen begging for food at the back door of Bob’s Big Boy on 17th and Locust.

Great Uncle Zippy has finally conquered the Ear-rectile Dysfunction that has plagued him his entire life. His left ear is now standing up nicely with a little help from a Popsicle stick and a discreet comb-over. It’s hardly noticeable.

On a brighter note, our celebrity of the family, Coco is being considered to star on a new reality show. After her recent success in “Project Run-away,” we believe it’s a sure thing that she’ll land the starring role on “America’s Next Top Poodle.”

Well, that just about wraps up the news of this past year. Here’s hoping you have a happy holiday season. May your days be filled with chasing squirrels and digging holes in the back yard. And, here’s wishing your nights are spent curled up at your peoples’ feet by the fire.

Butt sniffs to all, and to all a good night!
Boomer

The seasonal shopping frenzy is about to begin. Retailers are luring us in by trumpeting their best holiday deals and opening their doors at O-Dark-Thirty. Here are some offerings for the dog people on your list. No dog lover should be without these must-have items.

NOTE: This list is for early shoppers only because all of the items described have yet to be invented.

Remutt Control: The remote that sees through your dog!
Does it seem that every time you want to channel surf, there’s a dog standing directly in your wireless line of sight? Here’s the answer for you! Remutt Control…the TV remote control that works through your dog! No more pleading, yelling or cajoling with your dog to move out of the way. Remutt Control allows carefree channel surfing without disturbing your furry friend’s agenda. Call now. Dogs are standing by!
$49 +S&H ($343 in dog dollars)

Dogzilla Doggie Door Kit: Industrial Sized Dog Door!
Transform any entryway into a convenient, worry-free doggie door for your giant breed dog. Dogzilla Doggie Door ingeniously places the hinges at the top of the door instead of the customary side placement. The Dogzilla, easy-to-install kit comes with two heavy-duty hinges, instructions, and extra bits of hardware to confuse you. (Dogs not included).
$199 +S&H ($1393 in dog dollars)

E-Z Spot: The guiding light of doo!
Doggie constitutional walks often happen after dark. Solve the problem of hard-to-spot nocturnal deposits with E-Z Spot. E-Z Spot is a bioluminescent dog breed that produces easy-to-find, glow-in-the-dark bodily waste material. Not only is the poop easily seen, so is the dog…an added safety feature!
$1399 +S&H ($9793 in dog dollars)

Kitty Crunchies: Food your dog can enjoy before it goes through the cat!
It’s a known fact that dogs love the taste of cat food before and after it goes through the cat. Now you can offer your dog his favorite, delectable treat at every meal! Kitty Crunchies are fun, poopesque shapes covered with kitty litter-like sprinkles for realism. Give your dog the experience of eat-in or take-out by placing Kitty Crunchies in our genuine litter pan dog dish.

(Please note: Never place Kitty Crunchies next to the Almond Roca, as they are easily confused. Litter pan dog dish available separately).
40# bag: $39 +S&H ($273 in dog dollars)

Paw Print Home Décor: Eliminates Housework Altogether!
Never again, be embarrassed by dirty paw prints with bedspreads, flooring and rugs featuring muddy paw print designs. Your guests will never know when your house is actually dirty, as the real dirt is disguised by printed muddy paw designs. Available in S, M, L, XL and Dogzilla sized prints to match your own dog’s paw size.
King Size Bedspread: $149 +S&H ($1043 in dog dollars)
4’x6’ Rugs: $399+S&H ($2793 in dog dollars)
Flooring: $2 per sq. ft. +S&H ($14 in dog dollars)

Dog-In-A-Bubble: The Fun And Functional Dog Toy
Bubble Dog introduces the dog-sized hamster ball. Like the original hamster ball did for the hamster, Dog-In-A-Bubble keeps your dog safe while allowing him freedom to run and play. A fun and functional toy, the Dog-In-A-Bubble provides endless hours of enjoyment for your dog. In addition, DIAB prevents annoying dog problems like jumping up, digging, escaping the yard and destructive chewing.

NEW! DIAB Deluxe Model with built-in shampoo and conditioner dispensers. DIAB Deluxe allows your dog to bathe himself! Just add water and let your dog run in his bubble, then rinse, and repeat. (Dog not included) Available in S, M, L, XL and Dogzilla
$199 +S&H ($1393 in dog dollars)

Gate-O-Vac: The Doggie Gate That Looks Like A Vacuum Cleaner
The most effective dog containment equipment since the invention of the crate! This ingenious gate looks and sounds like a vacuum cleaner, to keep even the cleverest escape artist in check. Working on the concept that all dogs (and some men) harbor an irrational fear of vacuum cleaners, Gate-O-Vac uses an invisible force field of worry to keep dogs from passing by. Simply place Gate-O-Vac in a doorway or stairwell to keep your dog safe and sound. Available in upright or canister models.
$399 +S&H ($2793 in dog dollars)

PLEASE NOTE: These products are pure fantasy. No dogs, imaginary or real, were harmed during their conception.

Let’s face it; having three large male dogs is comparable to living in a college frat house.    I have a friend who has a sign hanging in her home that asks, “Why does dog hair stick to everything except the dog?” I have come to realize that the once manageable task of housework has morphed into a colossal exercise in futility. Some say that cleanliness is next to Godliness; but with three dogs those same people would say, “It’s next to impossible!” I could vacuum every four hours and still see hair balls the size of house cats tumbling across the hardwood floor on their way to a permanent home under some immovable piece of furniture.

I’m in constant competition with the legions of dog hair in my home. I vacuum, I shake out rugs, I’ve even resorted to firing up the leaf blower, but there is no winning over this ubiquitous adversary. Furthermore, ignoring it is no answer. Dog hair has an incredibly long shelf life!   In my world, vacuum cleaners are almost as disposable as Dixie cups. I have yet to find an affordable vacuum with the horsepower to contend with the mountains of dog hair that reside in my area rugs alone. I have vivid memories of the passing of one particular cleaning appliance, a sturdy, bagless vacuum of the upright persuasion. After sucking up bushels of dog hair over a two-year period she began to protest, emitting puffs of smoke from her motor. I coaxed her along for months. I finally decided she should hang up her hepafilter when preparation for vacuuming first required the disarming of all smoke alarms.  I am quick to blame any lack of hygiene in my house on my dogs. After all, I’ve always had at least one “German Shedder” sharing my home. One story of my dog Sadie puts household cleanliness into proper perspective:

It was the sorrowful day that Sadie, my forever dog, told me she was ready to go on to Heaven’s Big Back Yard. I called in a couple of close friends for comfort and a kindly, compassionate veterinarian to help Sadie on her final journey. As the vet was preparing the injection, she advised that I might want to place a towel under Sadie to protect the rug in case there was anything in her system she wouldn’t be taking with her. I replied, “No, that’s OK. This rug has been chewed on, pooped on, peed and puked on.” To that, my friend Marla quietly added, “And that was before she had dogs!”
Hair isn’t the only cleaning challenge presented by dogs. Two of my three dogs have long hair and extra fluffy bedroom slipper feet. This means that every time they come in from the back yard, they are proudly wearing their respective leaf collections. Maybe I need to rethink that leaf blower idea.  Preserving the landscape is another challenge of living with the pack. Visible areas of my property are kept looking respectable, but the section relegated to the dogs looks like a government missile testing site. However, explosives are not the source of numerous gigantic holes that punctuate my yard. My dogs love to dig. I think at least one of them is part backhoe with latent agricultural tendencies. My neighbors and I are thankful for privacy fences.  I once thought it would be a good idea to have the dogs help me with a tree-planting project. All three were supervising me while I began to dig with my trusty shovel. The looks they gave me seemed to say, “No, Mom. You’re doing it wrong!” So, I tossed aside my shovel and said, “OK, guys. Go for it!” Jumping wholeheartedly into the task, they began to paw furiously, dirt flying high. But, not more than a minute into the excavation, the excitement turned to rabid competition with an all out brawl ensuing. Who ever said that gardening is therapeutic? My back yard still resembles a war zone, but for now, I’m content with that.
My battleground of a back yard is also where you’ll find the eternal predicament of the poop land mines. Three large dogs make for an abundance of well, crap. When it comes to dog waste management I allow myself the luxury of hiring someone else for the proverbial poop patrol. Yes, this wonderful service is actually available. I nod to the entrepreneurial genius that made it possible for me to avoid dealing with one dirty job. Now we humans are disgusted by excrement, but dogs are actually proud of their biological accomplishments. Thus, when the scoop technician arrives at my gate every Wednesday morning, my dogs go into a protective, frenetic display. I’m pretty sure they are saying, “He’s moving my poop! He’s moving my poop!” “I worked really hard on that one.”
So goes the never-ending quest: My dream of a clean environment and my dogs’ collective aspirations to smash that dream.
So I lay down my vacuum and give in to the grime. After all, I live in a cozy 1,000 sq. ft. house with about 650 sq. ft. of dog! I could have a spotless home, but that would also mean being “Spot-less”. That, my friend, is not an option!

A question I often pose to new training clients asks, “Why did you choose this particular breed?” Answers are as diverse as the people queried. They usually offer logic such as, “We always had Dachshunds when I was a kid.” “I’ve been around German Shepherds all my life and I know them well.” or “I’ve researched Chihuahuas for many months and have decided it is the perfect breed for me and my lifestyle.”
Personally and against all reason, I would answer the chosen breed question with, “I like big, fluffy, exceedingly goofy dogs.” However, with every year that passes, every birthday I celebrate, I recognize that I’m one year closer to having a little sweater dog. I envision myself in my twilight years with an attitude of entitlement and my little dog named “Cargo” (or maybe Tadpole) because I carry him everywhere, rendering his tiny legs to be superfluous appendages.
I’m thinking ahead here. While I currently prefer to live with big, fluffy, exceedingly goofy dogs, I have to be realistic in considering my future capabilities and lifestyle. It’s only fair to the dog, to my neighbors and me.
This week signifies another trip around the sun for this old girl. They say that any birthday ending with a 0 or a 5 is a major one. This one ends in a 5. Actually, it also starts with a 5, so I might consider it a milestone if I believed in age as anything but a number. Nevertheless, as the years race by, totally out of my control, I wish for only one thing. I wish that my dogs would help out around the house more. I’ve recently concluded that I must either train my dogs to do yard work and automotive maintenance or move into assisted living.
Eight years ago I adopted a 4-month-old Border Collie mix from the local shelter. Being a dog trainer, I thought, would qualify me for the challenges of living with a Border Collie. I was painfully wrong.
Mr. MoJo showed me a new respect for the Border Collie breed. I was humbled by his unbridled abandon in deconstructing upholstered furniture. In his younger days, MoJo could reverse engineer a sofa in under 7 minutes. Perhaps in a former life he was an interior designer or a demolition expert. While other artists labor in oil or clay, his true medium is stuffing…he’s a canine modern master! In addition to de-upholstering furniture, MoJo had a penchant for window treatments. One evening, he effortlessly plucked the living room drapes from their rods and shredded them into minuscule lacey bits.
Moreover, I lay the blame for MoJo’s wake of destruction squarely on myself. I was working three jobs and somewhat unprepared for life with a rambunctious pup of the herding persuasion. My having barely enough time to devote to MoJo’s proper rearing, we both paid a price. Ironically, he has redeemed himself as the established voice of reason in our household. I, on the other hand, continue to seek redemption in the matter.
I suppose all “parents” lament and wish for do-overs on certain parenting decisions. I wouldn’t expect to raise children without the occasional Crayola mural or a dent in the car. Neither do I expect to raise a puppy without the intermittent accidental puddle or chewed shoe…within reason, of course.
Think carefully about your lifestyle, breed personality traits and how many couches you’re willing to replace before choosing your new dog. It’s easy to let emotion override logic in this dangerous decision-making territory. For instance, a woman once told me that she wanted a Jack Russell Terrier. She wanted one because on her daily commute, she drove by the dog food plant. Every day she saw the ad painted on the building depicting a cute JRT puppy with his nose buried in the dog food bag. Anyone who has spent any time with hyper-drive Jack Russell Terriers need not be told why this is so amusing. The rest of you don’t know Jacks!